Just because you have a camera and a laptop and an internet provider doesn’t mean you can be a successful cam girl. This job is NOT for every one. It’s not just titty flashes and finger banging yourself on your fuzzy living room rug. It’s so more than that. Camming requires a lot of soul searching and dipping into your long put away creative juices. And while some superficial bitches can find some success, eventually the 18k gold overlay washes off, leaving nothing but a tarnished hot mess.
So, get your shit together. What kind of cam girl ARE YOU? What’s going to be different about your shows that the other girls just don’t have? What makes you special? And after you discover what these things are… How are you going to implement them into your work to make you stand out above everyone else? Because seriously? Just because you CAN cam, doesn’t mean you SHOULD cam. Not everyone is social enough to be successful. And sure, having nice body parts is a good place to begin, but after awhile, what else do you have to offer?
For starters, be a nice human being. If you go into this thinking every guy who peeps your pussy OWES you something, you are going to be soooo disappointed. And kind of a dick too, but whatevs. A lot of cam sites allow anonymous dudes to see your shows, so that means even though you think your tatas are worth mucho tokens, there are currently guys with nothing but lint in their pocket catching free boners looking at your nips. So, know your odds and work around them.
Knowing that freeloaders are checking you out, shouldn’t change the way you do anything. For every three guys with a zero token balance, there are 5 who have the ways and means to spoil you, you just have to find a way to get AND KEEP their attention long enough to let that happen.
Also? You should keep in mind that not every guy has 3 hours to see you, fall in love with you and decide they want to pay your rent. You literally have minutes and sometimes even SECONDS to entice, seduce and entertain. So, keep your games and tricks and promises to under a certain amount of time because a lot of token holders have a sort of sexual ADHD. If you miss your window because you were waiting 40 minutes to get a crazy ticket show started, you just might lose your opportunity.
Step out of your comfort zone.Try some freaky shit. Nipple clamps, latex, a ball gag, some furry handcuffs or even just a tub of Cool Whip. Be prepared, because not everyone likes what your boyfriend likes, so sometimes you just need to freshen shit up.
Buy some sexy lingerie. Even if you think it’s a waste or even if you normally don’t wear it because most of your guys prefer to see you naked, there will always be that one dude who comes into your room requesting something other than the norm and they will bounce from room to room until they find it. Soooo, fuck that…be on top of that shit and beat someone else to it.
Hashtag the fuck out of yourself. If you are a squirter, make sure the guys that love that shit know you soak through some sheets when you cum. If you are a bigger girl than average, make sure your BBW lovers know you are online so they can come show you some chubby girl love.
Twitter your ass off. While some girls charge for Snapchat and Instagram, the bottom line is that statistically more people use and have access to Twitter than any other social media platform. Get on that shit, attach a widget to your bio, and post post post. Accumulating followers will not only improve the groups that come into your room, it will also let your regulars know what you are up to and if you are selling anything or doing a show soon that they might be interested in seeing.
Don’t just scream shit into the camera. Saying OHMYGOD and THANK YOU and YESSSS every time you get a tip is NOT conversation. Talk to your guys. Sure, be grateful and react to your tips anyway you choose, but then DO MORE. Have conversations. Tell a little about yourself. Talk. Don’t just stare at your phone looking bored and distracted waiting for guys to throw nickels at your face because just like a regular full time job, camming is work. Being a cam girl is just like being employed as any other service worker. You need to be friendly, approachable, engaging and sincere. If they wanted to be in a room with a disinterested bitch not talking to them and staring at their phone, they would just hang with their spouse/significant other. So, start yapping, chica. They don’t call it a chat room for shits and giggles.
So yeah. Camming is awesome. And yes, camming is a billion dollar industry. However, just because the money is there, doesn’t mean it’s owed to you simply because you’ve decided you’re ready to give it a whirl.
This profession is what you put into it, so put some awesome stank on it…and good luck, bitches!!